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High-profile fibs feed public
cynicism
By Karen S. Peterson, USA TODAY
Perhaps the country is headed into a
summer of deceit.
A fresh batch of high-profile liars have
been caught with their integrity down, some confessing, some
just languishing in an advanced state of embarrassment.
The reasons they fib are often complex,
say social scientists who monitor such things. And yes, it
does matter. People do care. It all adds up — or comes down —
to more fodder to feed an increasingly cynical society.
The most recent fabrications:
- Journalist David Brock confessed in Blinded by the
Right that he "lost his soul" by printing allegations he
knew to be untrue about Anita Hill during the 1991 Clarence
Thomas confirmation hearings for the U.S. Supreme Court.
- Pulitzer Prize-winning historian and Mount Holyoke
College professor Joseph Ellis was caught having invented a
tour of duty in Vietnam.
- Sony's Columbia Pictures acknowledged creating a fake
critic to praise its movies in newspaper advertisements.
Both Columbia and Fox Searchlight acknowledged having
employees pose as moviegoers in "man-on-the-street"
interviews for TV commercials.
And one does not have to go back far to
recall a president lying about a sex scandal and desperately
parsing words to avoid the truth.
It all adds up. "We have become
desensitized to the enormous significance of lying," says
Michael Josephson of the Josephson Institute of Ethics in
Marina del Rey, Calif. "The effects are all destructive,
generally lowering the level of trust in anything we read or
hear." The cumulative effect is to give everyone permission to
lie, Josephson says, because the powerful do.
For only the second time in 50 years,
ethics and morality near the top of the list of what the
public regards as the most important problems facing the
country, says pollster George Gallup Jr. "I think the public
is alarmed. More than three-quarters (78%) say our moral
values are somewhat or very weak."
Public lying is sapping the nation's
strength, says Gerald Celente of Trends Research Institute in
Rhinebeck, N.Y. "There is a moral and spiritual vacuum
reflected in all aspects of society. Lying and cheating is
permissible."
Lying can be acceptable in some
instances, however. Some theologians believe the full truth
can be a form of betrayal if it causes harm. And some lies can
be justified if they serve the higher good, says John Carlson
of the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life. But lies told
"for personal gain and no higher good, to improve one's status
or sense of self, or for self-aggrandizement" are out of
bounds.
Lies range from "the impulsive, to the
unconscious, to those that are fully planned and carefully
executed," says psychiatrist Jeffery Smith of Scarsdale, N.Y.
The ability to lie is actually one of the hallmarks of being
human. "A lie takes the truth and flips it upside down.
Animals cannot do that."
Liars fib from a variety of motives, from
simple to complex, experts say. They may seek to escape
punishment, to gain something that can't be earned
legitimately, to get power over others or to build self
esteem, says psychologist Paul Ekman, author of Telling
Lies (Norton, $9.95). Liars often underestimate the
consequences, he says. "They may never be trusted again."
One motive is "pure greed," says Charles
Ford, author of Lies! Lies!! Lies!!! The Psychology of
Deceit (American Psychiatric, $17). "Certainly we know
there is no shortage of lying in order to make more
money."
But other scenarios get more interesting,
he says. Some lies "often involve people who are talented,
bright, accomplished. They have no need to lie to sustain
their importance, and yet they do it anyway," says Ford, a
psychiatrist at the University of Alabama Medical School.
Some see this type of liar "as a variant
of what is called the impostor syndrome. Even though they are
very successful, they feel they are frauds. They feel that
whatever came to them was undeserved. And even though they
could get caught, even though they may eventually sabotage
themselves, they will do it anyway."
These fibbers "make up stories that
embellish their pasts, often to make them seem more
masculine." There may be, he says, "a 'gotcha' element, a
belief they can pull it off. They feel superior."
Some liars eventually become convinced
they are telling the truth, says Frank Farley, past president
of the American Psychological Association, now with Temple
University in Philadelphia.
"Our memories are not static, like a
filing system," Farley says. "Memory is dynamic. It is altered
by new experiences and gets edited to accommodate old ones.
You end up believing something that is really a lie."
But it will get harder to fudge, Farley
says. This is the era of the Internet. "We live in a much more
scrutinized society. We are relentless voyeurs into the lives
of people. It is getting harder to hide these things." |